Lawyer Arthur Ingutya has asked the court to order the man's in-laws to
return his family to Lavington. PHOTO | FILE |
A Nairobi man who lost his wife four months ago is locked in a legal battle
with his in-laws over the custody of their four children.
Through his lawyer Arthur Ingutya, the man, whose
identity the Nation has concealed for privacy reasons, claims his in-laws
have on separate occasions attempted to take away his children from their house
in Nairobi’s Lavington estate.
At the moment he filed the case, he claims, his
mother-in-law, three sisters-in-law and two brothers-in-law were staying with
his 11-year-old daughter and three sons aged 14, nine and seven.
ABANDON HOME
He accuses the in-laws of forcibly making his children,
who school at Sunshine Secondary and Makini Primary, to abandon their four-bedroomed
house on December 11.
The man, who now fears he may not celebrate Christmas
with his children, says the fight with his in-laws over the minors started just
days after the death of his wife of 15 years on August 16.
He wants a Nairobi magistrate court to compel his in-laws
to return the children and stop interfering with his parental responsibility.
MATERNAL UNCLE
“It is a matter of absolute urgency that the children be
restored to my custody so that we enjoy Christmas together and thereafter
prepare for school next year. I have no idea where they are,” he says.
He claims that he has continued to adequately provide for
them since the death of their mother and accuses his in-laws of interfering
with his responsibilities.
He explains that his daughter was taken away by a
maternal uncle who sought his permission for her to attend a party at her other
uncle’s place.
He had allowed her to attend the party but on condition
that she be returned the very day.
CIRMCUMCISED
However she has never been returned to date.
His three sons, he says, were taken away by the two
maternal uncles in the company of police officers from Muthangari Police
Station just days after their sister allegedly disappeared.
According to their father, the boys had just been
circumcised by a private surgeon four days before they were taken away.
They had not healed and were on medication, he says.
TAKE SIBLINGS
Mr Ingutya, the lawyer, told court that in September, one
of the uncles attempted to take away the children while pretending that they
were to accompany him to the Nairobi Pentecostal Church yet the family attends
Greek Orthodox Church on Valley Road.
The court also heard that in November, their grandmother
visited the family's Lavington home without notice, stayed for two days and
then instructed the eldest of the children to take his siblings to her home
without their father’s knowledge.
The man accuses his in-laws of delivering fast foods to
his children whenever they want, buying a smart phone for his eldest son who
uses it to access unreasonable content and even installing GoTV in his home
instead of the Bamba TV gadget which they have been using, without his consent.
LOVE, CARE
“This father has always done his best to provide for the
children’s needs with love and care, he has not engaged in any inappropriate or
criminal actions and charged with an offence relating to his conduct as a
parent,” Mr Ingutya said.
He initially reported the matter to the Dagoretti
Children’s Department where he was advised to move to court.
The case will be heard on December 29 when the in-laws
are expected to present the four minors before the magistrate court.
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